Thursday, October 30, 2008

31 weeks -- baby block is 4 navel oranges

ha! guess they're running out of singular items that are the same size...



from babycenter.com:

How your baby's growing:


This week, your baby measures over 16 inches long. He weighs about 3.3 pounds (
try carrying four navel oranges) and is heading into a growth spurt. He can turn his head from side to side, and his arms, legs, and body are beginning to plump out as needed fat accumulates underneath his skin. He's probably moving a lot, too, so you may have trouble sleeping because your baby's kicks and somersaults keep you up. Take comfort: All this moving is a sign that your baby is active and healthy.

See what your baby looks like this week.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

happy birthday dave!

cross-post warning! but it's dave's birthday, so i don't care...


i love this card, and i wish i had seen it in time for my wonderful husband's birthday.

happy birthday dave! i hope it's everything you want it to be. (and enjoy your last birthday before parenthood!!)

card from etsy seller letterary press.

Friday, October 24, 2008

work after mommyhood

this relates to a comment left by my friend and fellow stationer, erin mccall, on my post below. just so everyone knows what she said:

Hey Nic:

I'd love to hear what your plans are (business-wise) for when the baby comes. As a fellow indie designer, I'd love to know what you will be doing. Are you going to tell your clients you're off for a while? Work right away after he/she is born? It's not something I have to deal with now, but it's something I've often wondered about. "The logistics of being self-employed as a designer while raising a baby/child!"

Take care,

Erin

this is something that i thought an awful lot about before we even decided to try for a baby. my work is very important to me, even though i don't have a monetarily successful business right now. but i'm proud of the work i do, i want it to grow, and i have an INCREDIBLY supportive husband who is willing to continue with the sacrifices we've been making so that i can continue to move forward.

thankfully, we have families on both sides that are just so excited for the arrival of our child. and my mom, being both nearby and awfully generous, offered a long time ago to help with childcare during the week so that i could take a few days to work.

so we have a plan. i'm going to stop working in early december, since i'll be in my 9th month during holiday season (which i feel will be stressful enough without also working on top of it). i've let my clients and my collegues know this, so that i won't surprise anyone. there will also be a notice put up on my blog and on my website.

until then, i'm working with my clients to finish their jobs in time, as well as working on my own stationery for my etsy store. i want to get enough stuff in my store that could be purchased from me while i'm on "maternity leave" -- which, since i work on my own, is clearly an unpaid leave. hopefully that will help us have some extra funds in the beginning. additionally, i'm going to be launching a new "base" website in the new year to bring new and more diverse design work my way, to grow the business potential.

and yes, i'm taking a leave from work. i have enough kids in my life to know that getting back to work right after childbirth is just not in the cards! i need time to bond with our baby, get the kid on a schedule, and figure out how to function with a new little life in our home. however, i'm hoping that my leave can be ended in march, when i can get back to work in time for wedding season. and a couple of my current clients will be holdovers until the spring for some other items, so that will also help. in getting back to work, i'm not sure how long it will take to be on a 3 day schedule, but as soon as i'm ready for that my mom will be helping out by taking the baby off my hands for those days -- so i can concentrate and get my work done without baby block crying in the background.

in the end, i just want to make sure that i keep certain parts of my identity. my work and my willingness to grow as a professional is very important to me. but so is being a present mom. i'm actually hoping that having just those 3 short days a week will actually propel me forward in my career -- doing it for myself as well as to be a great role model for my kid. and at the same time, i can keep quite a flexible schedule so that i can spend a ton of time with baby block, take her to school and pick her up, etc. it's ideal if we can make it work, so dave and i are going for it.

Thursday, October 23, 2008

30 weeks -- baby block is a head of cabbage

yep, this kid is getting big!!



from babycenter.com:

How your baby's growing:

Your baby's about 15.7 inches long now, and she weighs almost 3 pounds (like a head of cabbage). A pint and a half of amniotic fluid surrounds her, but that volume will decrease as she gets bigger and takes up more room in your uterus. Her eyesight continues to develop, though it's not very keen; even after she's born, she'll keep her eyes closed for a good part of the day. When she does open them, she'll respond to changes in light but will have 20/400 vision — which means she can only make out objects a few inches from her face. (Normal adult vision is 20/20.)

See what your baby looks like this week.

Note: Every baby develops a little differently — even in the womb. Our information is designed to give you a general idea of your baby's development.

How your life's changing:

You may be feeling a little tired these days, especially if you're having trouble sleeping. You might also feel clumsier than normal, which is perfectly understandable. Not only are you heavier, but the concentration of weight in your pregnant belly causes a shift in your center of gravity. Plus, thanks to hormonal changes, your ligaments are more lax, so your joints are looser, which may also contribute to your balance being a bit off. Also, this relaxation of your ligaments can actually cause your feet to spread permanently, so you may have to invest in some new shoes in a bigger size.


i would like to note that i am indeed ridiculously klutzy these days. i have, in the past couple of weeks, fallen pretty badly, dropped a glass, and cut my finger pretty deep. at this rate, i don't know what i'll look like come delivery.

Monday, October 20, 2008

just politics? or spreading prejudice?

ok, ok. this is our baby blog. but a lot of what i've been seeing lately from this political race is disconcerting for baby block's future world.

finally, someone said it. said what dave and i have been shouting at the television like crazy people for weeks. colin powell, after coming out with an endorsement for barack obama yesterday morning, said that he was troubled by the racist and prejudiced tones coming from the republican side.

from the AP:

Powell also said he was troubled that some Republicans — he excluded McCain — continue to say or allow others to say that Obama is a Muslim, when he is a Christian. Such rhetoric is polarizing, he said.

"He's always been a Christian. But the really right answer is, what if he is? Is there something wrong with being a Muslim in this country? The answer's no, that's not America," Powell said. "Is there something wrong with some 7-year-old Muslim-American kid believing that he or she could be president?"

i feel as though no one -- no media, no one from the obama campaign -- no one has said this before. at least not outloud.

yes, barack obama's color has been brought up, and how the phrase "paling around with terrorists" plays into people's fears. and of course, all of that is true. but why oh why has no one said, no, he's not a muslim, but who cares if he was? to that woman who stood up at the mccain rally and said, "he's an arab," john mccain said that he's not, and said that he is a good man. i'm glad he finally said something to these crazy people. however, the phrase "he's not an arab, he's a good man," doesn't exactly give a ringing endorsement to arabs. since when are arabs NOT good people? well, for some, arab=muslim=terrorist, and to not put that comparison down is a way of fueling that fear. be it conscious or unconscious.

obama has to worry about losing voters due to racism and prejudice. but clearly, it's not just a black thing. it's a muslim thing. it's an arab thing. and i think that it's very sad but very true. and i fear for the way our children will be taught to see things.

dave and i will make sure we give the gift of diversity to our child. it's hard to escape, since we've chosen to move into a neighborhood that is extremely diverse. kensington and ditmas park are populated by pakistani muslims, orthodox jews, black, white, asian, etc. last tuesday night our pakistani neighbors down the hall had a celebration for breaking the fast for ramadan, and the next night an orthodox jewish gentleman actually came to our door and did a succot blessing with me, leading me in a prayer and explaining the ritual. i thought, wow, i hope all of this happens again next year when baby block is here! but not everyone is so fortunate to have so much cultural diversity in their lives. and i hope those people reinforce equality with their children. because the betterment of our world depends on it.

no matter who you choose to vote for, republican or democrat, i urge you -- for my kid's sake as well as yours -- to fight this prejudice. remind everyone around you that muslim or arab does NOT equal dangerous. remind them that this country is built on the ability for everyone from every background to have a chance at something great in their life. that does not exclude muslims, arabs, middle easterners any more than it would exclude jews, catholics, asians, black, white, etc.

and thank you, colin powell.

Friday, October 17, 2008

nursery wall art




oy. my ongoing issue in our home is wall art. what to hang? should i make it myself? this is a problem everywhere in our home, and it has now extended into the office/nursery.

we only have one wall to worry about -- the wall above the crib. i definitely want to put something on there, but what? pictures in frames would be too easy to reach or fall when the baby gets bigger. a mural is too difficult for me to paint right now. so, that leaves us with wall decals.

i was going to design my own wall decal, but i'm quickly running out of time and energy. so today i did a quick hunt for wall decals and found some really great ones. maybe we'll go with one of these?

where has the week gone?


it's actually been a tough week on my end. a bit of stress here, a bit of stress there. my back is really starting to bug me, which is bothersome -- i can't find a comfortable sitting position for any length of time. and since growing YET AGAIN, i'm having a harder and harder time moving around and doing physical things.

but, in all of this, there are a number of silver linings.

first, baby block is stronger and more active than ever. i love that. feeling him/her bounce around in there is such a great thing. so nice to have company during the day too!

second, we did continue to receive some wonderful gifts, and i put a couple of them together -- our swing-seat and sleep sheep were purchased for the baby from aunt pearl, and i put the seat together. and as formerly stated, we had received our high chair, and i put that together myself this week. it looks so great in the dining room! and it actually matches really well -- totally unplanned, mind you, but perfect.

also, we received the carpet tiles that we ordered for the office/nursery rug from flor. this was totally the best way to go! the room is about 8.2 ft wide x 12.8 ft long. so an 8x10 rug would have covered the room unevenly. plus, we couldn't find a rug that would go with our nursery color scheme without being too drab, or within our price range. so i decided to try flor carpet tiles. i received some samples first of some of their most economical tiles in the desired colors -- rust, blue, green, and charcoal grey. dave and i liked how they all looked together, and i designed the rug online to fit our room size and theme. it was so perfect for us -- we ordered a rug that will be 6.5 ft wide x 9.8 ft. long when put together, which will be large enough for the room but still leaves our hardwood floors visible underneath. perfect!

the floor tiles arrived this week and they're awesome. the basic scheme for the rug is in the image above. we'll put them in the space tomorrow and have everything in the room ready to go so that whenever the crib comes in, the room will be ready for it.

i will take photos of all our fun new stuff this weekend and post them.

now, if only i could straighten out the issues with our Bugaboo stroller, life would be great (long story, to be told at another time).

Thursday, October 16, 2008

29 weeks -- baby block is a butternut squash!

yay! just in time for fall!



from babycenter.com:

How your baby's growing:

Your baby now weighs about 2 1/2 pounds (
like a butternut squash) and is a tad over 15 inches long from head to heel. His muscles and lungs are continuing to mature, and his head is growing bigger to make room for his developing brain. To meet his increasing nutritional demands, you'll need plenty of protein, vitamins C, folic acid, and iron. And because his bones are soaking up lots of calcium, be sure to drink your milk (or find another good source of calcium, such as cheese, yogurt, or enriched orange juice). This trimester, about 250 milligrams of calcium are deposited in your baby's hardening skeleton each day.

See
what your baby looks like this week.


How your life's changing:

Your baby's very active now. Your practitioner may ask you to spend some time each day
counting kicks and will give you specific instructions on how to do this. Let her know if you ever notice a decrease in activity. You may need a nonstress test or biophysical profile to check on your baby's condition.

Monday, October 13, 2008

i've grown -- again!

yes, within a week of my syracuse shower, i've managed to grow yet again. i was wondering if it was my imagination, but definitely not. this evening i put on a pair of pants that was borrowed from auntie inna -- meant for me when i got too big for my smaller preggo pants -- and they actually fit! they didn't fit last week. but they fit tonight. damn.

hehehehe...

oh well, guess it's a good thing. you know, this whole baby-needs-to-grow theory and all...

=)

Friday, October 10, 2008

welcome to the world, gabriel joseph lopez!



my friends meredith and carlos got to welcome into the world their new son, gabriel joseph lopez, on wednesday october 8th. he was born at approx. 9:30 a.m., and weighed in at 7 pounds, 11 ounces.

how damn cute is he? and i think meredith looks FABULOUS as a new mommy.

i can't wait to meet the little guy. meredith, carlos, all my love to your new gorgeous son. we are so happy to have him in our lives.

iron supplements and more...


i had my 28 week midwife visit yesterday. overall, all is well. my glucose test came back normal (yay!), and the size of the baby is right on target. i gained more weight, but about half the amount that i did upon my last visit... so i guess i would get "most improved" on my report card. LOL... but it was still 4 pounds. i spoke to them about what i'm eating, and after confirming with me that i'm not going hog-wild on sweets or carbs (which i'm not), my midwife told me that maybe my body just needs to gain the weight. **shrug** i'm still eating healthy, so i hope that means all is well.

my only not-so-great news was that my iron count is still low. it was low in the beginning, and i've made a concentrated effort to eat iron-rich and fortified foods ever since. but this little bugger must be sucking all my iron from me! so i've been prescribed iron supplements.

otherwise, all is well. so good, in fact, that i was able to avoid the 2-week appointments for now. my midwife gave me a choice for my next appt. -- i could do 2 weeks from now or 4 weeks. but since i'm right on track, she didn't see a need for a 2 week. so, to make my life easier, i went for 4 weeks! yay! but that WILL be my last 4 week appt. then i'm switched to 2 week and eventually 1 week appts.

we're coming down to the wire now! now that we're heading into mid-october, it's really only 2.5 months away! eek!

Thursday, October 9, 2008

28 weeks -- baby block is a chinese cabbage

yeah, i don't know. LOL



from babycenter.com:

How your baby's growing:
By this week, your baby weighs two and a quarter pounds (like a Chinese cabbage) and measures 14.8 inches from the top of her head to her heels. She can blink her eyes, which now sport lashes. With her eyesight developing, she may be able to see the light that filters in through your womb. She's also developing billions of neurons in her brain and adding more body fat in preparation for life in the outside world.

See what your baby looks like this week.

How your life's changing:
You're in the home stretch! The third and final trimester starts this week. If you're like most women, you'll gain about 11 pounds this trimester.

At this point, you'll likely visit your doctor or midwife every two weeks. Then, at 36 weeks, you'll switch to weekly visits. Depending on your risk factors, your practitioner may recommend repeating blood tests for HIV and syphilis now, as well as doing cultures for chlamydia and gonorrhea, to be certain of your status before delivery. Also, if your glucose screening test result was high and you haven't yet had follow-up testing, you'll soon be given the 3-hour glucose tolerance test.

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

for those of you waiting patiently -- new belly pics!





yes, yes. we finally took a few photos. not the most ideal ones, but they're there!

me at 27 weeks, all dressed up for my shower. thanks to aunt inna for the oh-so-comfy pants!

back from shower!

we are back from our weekend in syracuse, and that means back from my first baby shower!

first, i have to thank grandma barbara (barb, have you decided on a grandma name yet?) and her friend sarah for such a wonderful day. it was just so kind of both of them to do this, and so nice of sarah to host it in her home. and thank you to all the ladies who attended!! it was just so great to know how much this baby is anticipated. he or she will be well loved.

we had a lovely time. everyone gathered in sarah's fabulous home for appetizers and conversation. after lunch, i was presented with my "surprise cupcakes", which i had been told ahead of time i wasn't allowed to see until they were unveiled. oh my goodness, they were so adorable!!! i couldn't get enough of them.

how great are these cupcakes???!!!

and after our cute and yummy cupcakes, we settled in for some gift opening.



don't really know why kira and jen look so serious here.

our friends and family were so very sweet and generous. we mostly got clothes for baby block -- a lot of socks, hats, and sleepers, and some great syracuse gear, which was very necessary for the child of SU alumni. we also got a few books, which is huge for me, and both of our carriers (thank you kira and jen/brandyn!!). finally, of course, is also our stroller base, given to us by grandma barbara, uncle noah, uncle larry, and aunt olivia.

kira telling some "interesting" stories about baby block's father. i covered the baby's ears...

barb's reaction to reliving those stories.


we chatted for a while afterwards, mostly telling block-brothers stories to everyone. we also took a bunch of photos to make sure to capture the day (and the belly).

kira, me, and baby block.

the block ladies. anju (uncle larry's girlfriend), me, grandma barbara, and aunt olivia.

kira, me, jen.

grandma barbara, me, sarah. my two wonderful hosts!

finally, it was time to depart. dave and uncle noah came over to help carry everything back to grandma barbara's house, and we loaded much of it into the car.

when we got home yesterday evening, i spread *most* of our gifts out on the sofa, so that i could take some proper photos of the presents. i'm not sure that baby block needs any more clothes now! he/she got so much in the way of smooth babywear. =) i put all of the clothes away after taking the photos, and put the books on the baby's bookshelf.

baby block's loot!

some of our new additions to the baby's library (and the parents' library), as well as a couple of the outfits received.

outfits, towels/washcloths, toys.

the two onesies here were handmade by apryl, and the oh-so-cute "peace" hat and "rock and roll" bib are from sarah and peter.

the basket is from kara and sammy.

cute monkey outfit suite, and more books!

closeup of our syracuse gear!! very appropriate.

thanks again to everyone who was there. we really appreciate it.

Friday, October 3, 2008

glucose test -- check!


i went today for my glucose screening test -- which tests for gestational diabetes. it wasn't nearly as bad as i expected it to be. just had to drink this small bottle of very very sugary orange soda in less than 5 minutes, and sit there for an hour before getting blood drawn.

i'm sure the results will be more than fine... our only concern is that there's a lot of type 2 diabetes in my family, which is the type that's genetic. but there's no family record of gestational diabetes, and i'm certainly not that big, so i'm pretty sure we're fine.

also, in other exciting news, our high chair was delivered yesterday! (see picture above.) my grandma, aka great-grandma mary, purchased it for baby block just 2 days ago. and it was delivered yesterday! go buy buy baby! dave has to put it together yet, but it looks really beautiful and matches our dining set. and now that all the boxes are out of our home, there's actually room by the dining table to keep the high chair. =) i know that it won't get used for, like, 9 months, but i don't care. we're putting it together right away! LOL

anyway, i'm doing work today to get ready for the trip upstate this weekend. excited for my first baby shower!

Thursday, October 2, 2008

27 weeks -- baby block is a head of cauliflower


ha! these never cease to amuse me...

from babycenter.com:

How your baby's growing:

This week, your baby weighs almost 2 pounds (like a head of cauliflower) and is about 14 1/2 inches long with her legs extended. She's sleeping and waking at regular intervals, opening and closing her eyes, and perhaps even sucking her fingers. With more brain tissue developing, your baby's brain is very active now. While her lungs are still immature, they would be capable of functioning — with a lot of medical help — if she were to be born now. Chalk up any tiny rhythmic movements you may be feeling to a case of baby hiccups, which may be common from now on. Each episode usually lasts only a few moments, and they don't bother her, so just relax and enjoy the tickle.

See what your baby looks like this week.

How your life's changing:

The second trimester is drawing to a close, but as your body gears up for the final lap, you may start noticing some new symptoms. Along with an aching back, for example, you may find that your leg muscles cramp up now and then. They're carrying extra weight, after all, and your expanding uterus is putting pressure on the veins that return blood from your legs to your heart as well as on the nerves leading from your trunk to your legs. Unfortunately, the cramps may get worse as your pregnancy progresses. Leg cramps are more common at night but can also happen during the day. When a cramp strikes, stretching the calf muscle should give you some relief. Straighten your leg and then gently flex your toes back toward your shin. Walking for a few minutes or massaging your calf sometimes helps, too.

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

seven months, and things are moving...

so today marks my seventh month. or, at least in some books estimations... by others, i have to wait until next thursday, my 28th week. but for all intents and purposes, i'm here.

which means big things are happening! first big thing is me... i'm getting larger and larger. i popped again last week, and everyone notices! ha!

next is that baby purchasing is on its way! the wonderful grandparents have already purchased their overly-generous baby gifts. grandma barbara purchased the bugaboo stroller last night, while grandma maria (and grandpa hank, by extension) purchased the crib today. so exciting! can't wait to have both in the house.

also, my first baby shower is this weekend. woo-hoo!! grandma barbara has graciously offered to throw me a shower upstate in syracuse, hosted by her and her friend sarah at sarah's home. this is so kind of them! dave and i are heading upstate saturday to partake in a weekend of fun with grandma barbara and friends.

i promise to have photos of the belly this week -- whenever dave can take them for me. and this weekend will of course give us a ton of photos, which will go up as soon as we return.

yay baby block! he/she is coming very soon. =D